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Monday
Feb162015

Glory to God and Hallelujah! 

Like a Sweet Fragrance is now for sale on amazon.com as an ebook with the paperback soon to follow. For now, we're celebrating! I hope you like it, but most of all, I hope God is glorified as He sends it out into the world, doing what He wants it to do. If you read it, I hope you'll see how awesome God is to love us the way He does, to care about the little details of our lives, to show us how much we matter, and to want us to be part of something much greater than we can imagine.

I will be praying for everyone who reads it. May God speak to you and amaze you with His compassion and love and overall awesomeness!!! We are important to Him and to others too. Our lives matter. And as we follow closely behind Christ, doing what we were made to do, his sweet fragrance will spread throughout the world.

A friend said to me this morning, "I bet you feel like you have birthed a baby!" That really is an apt description of the way I feel. Only the labor went on for ten years, and I didn't gain quite as much weight!

Another friend commented, "The phantom book -- it really exists!" Yes! It really does! Glory to God and Hallelujah!

Mainly, however, Ian and I just look at each other, slightly teary-eyed, and for the most part, without words. The other day he remarked, "I wish I could help you more!" And I thought, "Are you kidding me? You were made for such a time as this!" This book truly was a partnership. Yes, my sweet husband is great material for a writer, but more than that, he's great support for a wife who loves to write. I can't count the hours that I spent upstairs at my computer, revising and editing and editing some more, addressing the details that are more endless than the actual writing itself. And Ian never complained. Not once. He's a keeper, my Ian.

I'd love to hear what you think! And on Amazon.com, you can read the first chapter for free! 

Thursday
Feb122015

Getting Closer!

Wednesday
Dec242014

Barbie's Dream House

I was disappointed. I wanted a Barbie Dream House made of cardboard for Christmas, and I didn’t get one. Instead, Santa brought a hand-crafted, specially-designed dream house, a one-of-a kind model made just for me by my dad. But I didn’t want it. I wanted the cardboard one that my cousin already had. Why in the world would I want a doll house made just for me when I could have the same one mass-produced for every girl in America?

I’m still mad at myself for being mad about the doll house!

Daddy died a few years later, but I still have the doll house he created just for me. Now 50 years old, it’s as sturdy as it was when Santa delivered it that Christmas morning to a young girl who was clueless about the things that last.

I have no idea how many hours Daddy worked on my dream house. I do know that he fashioned it with his own hands in his own shop and with own tools. With materials he selected. And he filled it with love especially for me.

It’s all in the details and the workmanship and the materials.

In fact, Barbie’s closet holds more accessories than mine does now! There’s a place for everything – shoes and suitcases and pajamas and even a bowl of knitting yarn. I guess I forgot that Barbie could knit!

Why in the world would I want a cardboard cut-out version from a box instead of a special one created by my father?

Looking back through my 60-year-old eyes, I was like the little girl hanging on to the fake pearls even though her dad wanted to give her the genuine ones.

Daddy loved me anyway. He didn’t know about the cardboard yearning I had to be like everyone else. And if he had known, he would have forgiven me. Daddy knew I loved him. Saint Bill – that’s what Ian calls my dad! In my memories, he’s perfect. Smart and talented, tall and strong, handsome and crazy about my mom and my sister and me. Really, that last thing is all that mattered. That, and the fact that he loved Jesus.

The pull-out drawers were labeled and a string underneath kept them from opening when the doll house was closed. Daddy anticipated the problems and solved them before they occurred!

There’s a steel rod to hang the outfits on and shelves for the extra accessories, things I didn’t have at the moment, but items I was to accumulate over the years.

And many of the clothes were handmade as well, crafted by my mom and granny, and preserved in my Barbie Dream Home, not of cardboard.

When I packed and moved my mom to Bellville after 40 years in her home in Houston, the stuff that was piled in the attic disintegrated before our eyes. The cardboard boxes crumbled into tufts of paper, useful only for sneezing. I have no idea what those boxes were or what they contained.

But my unique, original, one-of-a-kind dream house? As good as new! Probably better, really, for now it’s more appreciated than ever before. Because of the man who made it.

So these next few days, as we celebrate the gift of our Savior sent by His Father to save us from our sins, may we yearn for the genuine Jesus and not a cardboard cut-out dream. May we overflow with love for our Heavenly Father, who created us and loves us even when we don’t appreciate Him fully.  And may we be filled with His Holy Spirit as we spread God's love and joy and peace to those around us. 

Merry Christmas!

10 And the angel said unto them,

Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.

11 For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord.

12 And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.

13 And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God, and saying,

14 Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.

Luke 2:10-14

Monday
Dec222014

We've Been Robbed!

My husband wheeled up the road, pulled close beside me, and yelled, “Hop in! Someone broke into our house, and I’m on my way to report it!”

Quickly, I jumped into the truck, upset and shocked. I’d only been walking 30 minutes. “What did they take?” I asked Ian, preparing for the worst.  The pharmacy across the street had been robbed several times in the past few months, but our neighborhood is usually safe and quiet.

“The M&Ms are gone from the Trail Mix!” he cried! “They’re all gone!”

And he was convincing, too, my husband. He scared me. The idea of someone rummaging around in our home was disturbing. I think Ian missed his calling.

Yes, I had eaten the M&Ms out of the Trail Mix, but seriously?

I like M&Ms, and it doesn’t matter if they are green, blue, red, brown, yellow, or orange. Yes, I even like the orange ones! They all taste good to me. A little crunch and a little chocolate. Yummo!

I don’t ever buy them, however, because I like them so much. But they’re in the Trail Mix and sometimes…. Well, I pick them out and leave the raisins and the peanuts and the rest for someone else.

 

 

Mmmm….I think it’s a pattern of behavior for me.

When Ian and I married, we wrapped the top tier of our wedding cake in foil and froze it, leaving it in the freezer for our first anniversary. However, during the year, whenever I opened the freezer, I would peel off some of the foil and scratch off some of the icing. When our anniversary wheeled around, Ian wondered why the cake was so messed up. “The foil, I guess,” I said before I confessed. I had eaten most of the icing; I left the rest behind.

Recently I gave a draft of my book – Like a Sweet Fragrance – to someone who wanted to read it. I was so excited when she told me that she couldn’t go to bed until she finished the book. Wow! I was pumped! But then she admitted, “I’ll go back later and read the rest. I just picked out the parts about our family!” Ha! I’m not the only one who picks what she likes and leaves the rest!

Each year on Christmas Eve, our family plays a gift-exchange game that has become a tradition. The wrapped presents are piled in the center of the room and everyone draws a number. Then we take turns choosing a gift or stealing one from the person who went before us. The person who goes last steals the best gift of the night and leaves the rest for everyone else.

Maybe we shouldn’t. Take the best gift, that is.  Maybe we should leave the best for someone else. Maybe we should leave the good stuff behind.

“Among the best things we can give each other are new memories: kind words, signs of affection, gestures of sympathy, peaceful silences, and joyful celebrations,” Henry Nouwen says. I think he’s right. Those moments when we share a kind word and laughter, the quiet sorrows and peace are the best gifts we can give. They become a memory. The best of ourselves left behind for someone else. The moments become the memories.  

Ian and I, like so many others during this Christmas season, have whisked and waltzed and eaten our way through parties as we’ve celebrated with friends, family, colleagues, and even strangers. Yet as the time wheeled around for another festivity, I found myself eager for home. My goal was simply to go, visit quickly, express my appreciation, and then return home and curl up in my comfy chair with The Storyteller by Jodi Picoult.

When I got home, though, I began thinking about all the people I did not meet that night. Those whose eyes I did not make contact with. Whose hands I did not shake. The strangers that I didn’t greet with Merry Christmas. I didn’t leave my best behind; instead, I hurried home.

We break into each other’s lives all the times. We enter into each other’s world whenever we make contact -- a slight glance or a handshake or a smile. And each moment becomes a memory for someone else, an opportunity for God to impact the world in ways we can’t imagine.  

The moment & the memory.

We live one, we leave the other behind.

“Among the best things we can give each other are new memories,” Nouwen’s words resonate within me. In other words, let’s not rob each other of the good stuff.

I needed to go visit someone the other day, and I was too tired and cranky to go. So I began filling my mind with a massive to-do list for the holidays. But in my heart, I heard God speak: “Don’t let an opportunity go by without showing other people how much I love them.”

Mmmm….. “Don’t rob someone of my joy, Becky. Just don’t.”

To be fully present in the moment is to leave the gift of ourselves behind.

Moments & Memories -- How is it that God speaks even through M&Ms? Amazing, really, all the ways God grabs our attention!

Before Jesus was crucified, he reassured his disciples that one day their sorrow would cease. “I will see you again,” Jesus says to them. "And your hearts will rejoice, and no one will rob you of your joy.” (John 16:22).

In the meantime, we live the Moments & make the Memories for others to cherish after our time wheels around and God carries us home.  

Mmmm…..yet one more thing to ponder this Christmas season.

Wednesday
Dec172014

What Would the World Look Like Without...?

What would the world look like without orange?

I chose orange because it’s not my favorite color.

Not because of the University of Texas, even though I’m sure my Aggie blood surges whenever the burnt orange of our rival school flares across the television screen, but because it’s a color I’ve never been drawn to. I prefer pink and mauve and maroon. Yesterday, I chatted with a four-year-old girl whose favorite color is magenta! Now that’s a welcome addition to my palette of pinks!

No, I’m not much of an orange girl except to eat them. I have no orange clothes in my closet, nor do I have orange jewelry, scarves, or shoes.

So today, in the season of red and green, I chose to look for the color orange as I strolled the streets and pondered the question, “What would the world look like without the color orange?”

Hints of orange were everywhere.

The leaves of the tiniest shrubs glowed with orange, as did the grandest of trees. A river of rusty-orange ran through one backyard and down the curb of the street. The vibrant orange in the canna lilies mingled with yellow, refusing to be overshadowed, and the tangerine rose still bloomed despite the cold weather. And the lone Indian paintbrush, confused about the season, leaned stoically on the side of the road.

What would fall be like without orange anyway?

But orange is more than a fall color. The orange-brown of the faded fence posts, the rusty gate in our back pasture, the bright flares on the green wreath adorning the front door of the neighbor’s house, the orange-red stripes on the black rubber boots on the back of the white pick-up truck that almost ran me off the side of the road, and the orange-painted door of the weathered bird house on my rusty arbor – all are colored in shades of orange, regardless of the season.

The sheep and geese in the pasture were the focus of another picture I took, one that reminded me how much I love living in my small town, but the tree in the background provided a burst of orange in the more muted green and brown. It was a surprise. I didn’t realize the tree was there until its orange leaves called my attention to it.

I began watching the cars that passed, wondering if I’d see an orange one, but soon I began to pay more attention to the expressions of the drivers. Many were as intense as the flares of the sun, fiercely fixed on the road in front of them. Some were as mellow as a peach. A few had no expression whatsoever. Heads bopped back and forth, responding to the music I assumed, and many talked on the phone.  I wasn’t surprised that so many people were on their phones, but the spectrum of expressions was interesting, and I wondered what they were thinking. What their lives were like. What they were worried about. Why were some so cheerful and others so angry? 

As I looked for the color orange in my surroundings, I paid more attention to the rest of the world. The trash on the side of the road. Was it biodegradable or plastic? Should I pick it up or not?

I looked for the details, the smallest of things.

The curving, comma-like black skid marks crisscrossing the road and the orange-brown acorns clustered together, refusing to scatter and daring me to step on them and hear the crunch. I refrained. They were too pretty.

An orange pebble signaled my attention, daring me to pick it up and see how far I could throw it. I refrained. It was the only one.

And gradually I stopped looking for orange and began wondering about God, who created it. How interesting, really, the colors He put in our world. He could have designed it all in black and white, and we wouldn’t have known the difference, but He painted it with shades of orange – tangerine and melon and coral and persimmon and pumpkin and salmon – hues as pretty as the sunset and the sunrise and the reflection of light on the water.

He’s a creator of color, our rainbow-God, and the “world is charged” with his grandeur.         

I left our house on a color walk, wondering what the world would be like without orange, yet I returned full of wonder for God.

And as I climbed the hill to return home, I noticed, for the first time, how orange my house really is! Terra Cotta, the color is called, the same color it was painted by Ian’s grandparents in 1907! But really MY HOUSE IS ORANGE!!

This is the season for celebrating the birth of God’s Son. A time of love and joy, of red and green, and of gratefulness. And this season, I’ve added orange to my list of ever-growing reasons to be thankful. While looking for it in my surroundings, I grew more aware of the details that I often overlook.

Orange is part of the grandeur of God, and I’m glad it has a place in our world.

Even Frosty has orange mittens!


 

 God’s Grandeur

by Gerard Hopkins

 

 THE WORLD is charged with the grandeur of God.        

  It will flame out, like shining from shook foil;        

  It gathers to a greatness, like the ooze of oil        

Crushed. Why do men then now not reck his rod?        

Generations have trod, have trod, have trod;               

  And all is seared with trade; bleared, smeared with toil;        

  And wears man’s smudge and shares man’s smell: the soil        

Is bare now, nor can foot feel, being shod.        

 

And for all this, nature is never spent;        

  There lives the dearest freshness deep down things;               

And though the last lights off the black West went        

  Oh, morning, at the brown brink eastward, springs—        

Because the Holy Ghost over the bent        

  World broods with warm breast and with ah! bright wings.

 


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